Tuesday, May 22, 2012


A friend on facebook commented that her son wanted to give up as he is doing his HSC. How we as parents feel the pressure they feel to study and and achieve success. We as parents want the best for our children and I know from myself I feel for them as I remember going through the exact same thin years ago. All we, as parents, can do is offer support and be there for them. I believe as long as they put in the effort to do their best, regardless of the outcome, there are so many opportunities out there in the big wide world and they have to take them all with arms wide open to achieve what they like to or dream about. Whether they aim for a university degree, go to Tafe or start an apprenticeship they can achieve their dreams.


5 Tips for Successful Studying

Studying hard !!

Gauge your success by your own potential. Success isn't about whether or not you do better than others. It's about being better than yourself, being better every single day. The more you try to compare yourself to others, the further away you'll get from understanding true success -- a word that should be defined by you and you alone. Your success should be unique to you. Don't let anyone else determine what your success should be. 

Begin with the end in mind. 
What is it that you really want? Too often the goals we set for ourselves are arbitrary, based only on what we think we should be achieving, not what we actually want to achieve. If you want straight A's or to write a flawless thesis, go for it. But make sure you're doing it for you, not just because you think that's what you're supposed to do. Knowing what your end goal is -- a degree, becoming a subject expert -- will motivate you during the tough times. 
Studying in style

Figure out your values -- and live accordingly. To experience long-term fulfillment, you have to look at the big picture. Learning isn't just about grades or obtaining a degree; it's about taking your knowledge and doing something awesome with it. In order to do that, it's important to know what you stand for and what matters to you. Having values (and living by them) gives purpose to your education -- and your life. 

Change what's not working. If your current study habits (or any habits, for that matter) aren't working for you, change them. Don't keep doing what you've been doing unless you want to keep getting what you've always gotten. If you don't know what to change or how to change, seek advice from people in similar situations. Find a study partner or someone who can help you find more successful habits. 

Stop complaining.
 One of the easiest things to do when things are tough is complain. It feels good to wallow in what's not working -- but all that wallowing gets you nowhere. Resolve to stop complaining about all the work you have to get done and start doing it. Learning isn't about being comfortable -- it's about pushing yourself. Complaints get in the way of your success and it's up to you to stop them from doing so. 

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